When it comes to experimenting, many individuals and their minds automatically wander and they tend to get all judgmental thus making it totally awkward. It is important to remember that bedroom experimenting comes in a number of different formats. It doesn't have to involve something that would be embarrassing if it leaked out and it doesn't have to involve bringing in a third person. Experimenting in the bedroom can honestly mean something as simple as trying a new position. Personally I think it all boils down how comfortable you and your partner could both make yourselves feel while maximizing your pleasure.
Although many individuals, like you, want to experiment in the bedroom, many are afraid to approach their partner about doing so. In most African context where the male is presume to be the sole initiator of sexual plays, the female is pitifully at the mercy of her partners limited imagination. In some other demography, the issues of emotional insecurity springs in. You may catch yourself thinking and contemplating questions such as; What if your partner thinks that they don't please or satisfy you enough in the bedroom? What if your partner thinks that the sex is just fine the way it is? What if your sex partner thinks that you have a sick mind? These are all concerns that you may have, but you shouldn't let that stop you. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR SEX LIFE!
Now, If you do decide to approach the subject of experimenting in the bedroom with your partner, you will want to be subtle with your approach. Your partner may automatically believe that he or she isn't pleasing enough for you. Although this may not be what you mean, it is still a likely and natural assumption. If your partner asks you, be sure to calm their fears and insecurities. Let them know that you think that experimenting in the bedroom could not only increase your pleasure and satisfaction, but theirs as well. This approach tends to work nicely.
As it was previously stated, when many individuals hear the phrase "experimenting in the bedroom," their minds often wanders to embarrassing and sometimes humiliating experiences. If you are just looking to try a new sex position, introduce pleasure enhancing sex toys, or romantic movies, be sure to let your partner know immediately. Do not give him or her the opportunity to even think that you mean something different. Doing so can change the way that your partner looks at you, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
In addition to letting your partner know what changes you would like to make in the bedroom, give them the opportunity to express their wants, needs, and desires. This is a simple, yet important step to take. First, it is important to remember that intimacy should involve two people receiving maximum pleasure, not just one. Next, it will help bring reassurance to your partner that you are not just looking to increase your pleasure. Asking what your partner's wants and needs are in the bedroom will go to show that you want to improve the overall experience, not just yours. Be sure to send the right body language and allow your bodies to "communicate" passionately even without words.
Despite the fact that experimenting in the bedroom may sometimes be a difficult subject to approach, it is one that you will want to talk about. A healthy sex life is an important component of any relationship and marriage. And secretly, we all long for a sex life like that of "Roc and shay"!(*winks*)
By approaching the subject carefully, you and your partner can soon be having wild, yet pleasurable sex in no time at all...!!
...may you have peace, profound!
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